At some point we made our intimacy a priority. We realized that we wanted to make an intimate life. We didn’t just do it to be provacative, though we are very provocative. We didn’t just do it because we were horny, though I would say through our work we are very, very horny for each other. We began methodically improving our sex lives because we discovered that our love languages of physical touch and quality time are attended to, in their core, in physical intimacy.
Very simply, sometimes instead of only rubbing my girlfriend’s clitoris during touching, I sometimes gently tap the hood and the tip of the clitoris.
As you may know, the porn industry wants you pounding into her with every hard stick-like part of your body. But your first and best use of your finger has nothing to do with banging anything.
For most people, the only thing that changes is that the guy pounds into her more, or they change positions, or both. While pounding has its place, and positions are different ways to reach a similar outcome, I would say change the details of your process,especially the way you kiss.