At some point we made our intimacy a priority. We realized that we wanted to make an intimate life. We didn’t just do it to be provacative, though we are very provocative. We didn’t just do it because we were horny, though I would say through our work we are very, very horny for each other. We began methodically improving our sex lives because we discovered that our love languages of physical touch and quality time are attended to, in their core, in physical intimacy.
It doesn’t matter how many positions you master; if you don’t master the right moves, you are basically jerking off into your woman, and believe me, to her, that gets old.
Before going into the awesome and powerful oral sex techniques I have shown in my blog, try warming her vulva up by writing her name on her labia and clitoral hood–very lightly–with your tongue
Very simply, sometimes instead of only rubbing my girlfriend’s clitoris during touching, I sometimes gently tap the hood and the tip of the clitoris.
While there may be some things a vibrator can do that you will never be able to master, what it comes down to is your intimacy.
You are not only becoming intimate with her. You are also becoming intimate with her arousal.
While you can use your finger while licking, or use another type of vibrator, I think this is the ultimate vibrator to combine with oral sex because it won’t compete for space with your tongue.
We aren’t really into pain, but we are into feeling good during sex using intimate means. Using devices such as nipple clamps allows us to increase that intimacy through the intimacy of vulnerability. Every once in a while, we add something to the mix. In this case, we purchased some nipple clamps.