At some point we made our intimacy a priority. We realized that we wanted to make an intimate life. We didn’t just do it to be provacative, though we are very provocative. We didn’t just do it because we were horny, though I would say through our work we are very, very horny for each other. We began methodically improving our sex lives because we discovered that our love languages of physical touch and quality time are attended to, in their core, in physical intimacy.
It doesn’t matter how many positions you master; if you don’t master the right moves, you are basically jerking off into your woman, and believe me, to her, that gets old.
My girlfriend and I have been discussing what each of us is thinking before, during and after sex.
You are lying in bed. The two of you in underwear. Between now and culminating mutual orgasm…your thoughts take two different roads.
Very simply, sometimes instead of only rubbing my girlfriend’s clitoris during touching, I sometimes gently tap the hood and the tip of the clitoris.
Every round of oral sex on my girlfriend is different, but it always ends with a powerful orgasm, and there are common little events along the road to that orgasm
Don’t underestimate the importance of licking. Licking is such an obvious foreplay technique that we often overlook its possibilities. By far, licking is one of the most sensual and sensitive acts you can perform on your woman.
Out of the blue, and I mean completely randomly, text her something about kissing, touching, or observing this body part. (You must be genuine. If you have not paid attention to the body part, then study it for a bit before you start sexualizing it. Making it personal means really knowing it.)