At some point we made our intimacy a priority. We realized that we wanted to make an intimate life. We didn’t just do it to be provacative, though we are very provocative. We didn’t just do it because we were horny, though I would say through our work we are very, very horny for each other. We began methodically improving our sex lives because we discovered that our love languages of physical touch and quality time are attended to, in their core, in physical intimacy.
It doesn’t matter how many positions you master; if you don’t master the right moves, you are basically jerking off into your woman, and believe me, to her, that gets old.
My girlfriend and I have been discussing what each of us is thinking before, during and after sex.
You are lying in bed. The two of you in underwear. Between now and culminating mutual orgasm…your thoughts take two different roads.
To be attentive is the holy grail of a good relationship. Anticipate her needs and wants, and pay attention to her likes and dislikes. Show her she is important and a priority. Here are some ideas to get started:
Understanding your girlfriend is not impossible. And you don’t need constant love advice if you have an approach. There is a way to reach intimacy even if your relationship is beginning to feel insignificant.
To improve foreplay, use this approach: centralize foreplay. Rather than wonder how you can “warm her up” before you jump in, I suggest you wonder how you can make love to her before penetration is necessary.