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A Vibrator is a Man’s Best Friend

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Buying a Sex Toy is a Rite of Passage in a Relationship

I remember when I bought a vibrator for my girlfriend. She had never used one, and I had never had a woman use one.  To cut to the chase: research one, together, and buy one.  It isn’t just about adding “spice”.  It is about increasing opportunities for intimacy.

Is This Robot Better Than Me?

‘I have to admit, underneath it all, I was a little intimidated.  The selection of the vibrator had me wondering about my size and my abilities to arouse her.  Once we chose a vibrator and she used it for the first time, I thought, “I will never be able to be that repetitive in any motion. I am not a machine.  I suck.”

But that quickly went away when I realized that she loved being vulnerable with me enough to masturbate in front of me.  She also loved my confidence in working with the vibrator.  You see, being afraid of a vibrator is like her being afraid of a blanket because it keeps you warmer than she can.

In the end, it was one of the best purchases we have made.

Intimacy is Key

And guys, while there may be some things a vibrator can do that you will never be able to master, what it comes down to is your intimacy.

You are not only becoming intimate with her.  You are also becoming intimate with her arousal.

Benefits to the Vibrator

  1. The vibrator frees up your hands if you are touching, so you can touch other parts of her body or touch her g-spot.
  2. A vibrator makes her feel sexy.  There is still enough societal taboo in sex toys to make her feel healthily devious.
  3. A vibrator is good for watching her, for hot mutual masturbation.  While she uses direct finger stimulation in mutual masturbation, the vibrator adds an extra kick.
  4. I usually last long enough for her to come multiple times.  But she also likes to see how quickly I can come.  It makes her feel like she arouses me, and makes her feel hot.  If I give her this pleasure, and I am in rest mode, the vibrator helps keep her aroused while my body readinesinto the next round.
  5. A vibrator is a great way for her to get to know her own body.  It is to your benefit to encourage your woman to get to know her body.  You can learn something from it too.
  6. A vibrator is a great addition to oral sex.
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