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Fuck Better and Smarter: Innovate Beyond the Normal Male Sex Routines 

If you want to get–and keep–any girl you want, eventually your fucking game has to be on point.  As always, my idea here is to help you fuck better, to improve your relationship, and in this way improve your personal success.

I am not a moralist, so if you want to watch porn, then by all means, cue it up.  And if you want to masturbate daily, go at it. However, I am into fucking, making love, and intimacy, which is why I am bringing up not watching porn and limiting your masturbation.

A Brief Summary of the Problem with Porn

The two problems associated with porn, for those who want to fuck, are that porn offers a way to fuck that isn’t really arousing to women.  Porn may also lead to over-frequent jerking off, which can exhaust you.

Why Do Men Fuck Like They Do?

It seems men fuck like they do because of societal expectations, which came from unrealistic depictions of male sex in porn. But women don’t like fucking that way.

If You Want to Fuck Better, Stop Watching Porn

Here are some key points as to why porn works against you fucking better:

  • Pornography for men programs your brain, as a man, to fuck a certain way, to eat out in a certain way, to last an hour and cum a quarter of a gallon.  The way it programs you to fuck is in a way that, when watched, is visually stimulating to men.
  • Pornography itself is addicting.  What this means for you is that eventually your view of your lover will be interrupted by your view of these other images.  You will begin to prefer pornography over the body of the woman in from of you.
  • Frequent masturbation and ejaculation can lead to other issues, such as fatigue and low libido.  This will inevitably interrupt your sex life, and thus, your intimacy.

My Recommendations

Fuck better, smarter, and innovate beyond the normal male sex routines of porn and jerking-off.

  • Compare your idea of good sex to that of your woman, and start from there.
  • Don’t waste your sexual energy on porn.
  • Bonus: Don’t masturbate during a week in which you will have sex with your woman (it’ll make you harder and give you more powerful orgasms).

What you should be doing is contemplating the body of your lover.  You should work methodically and creatively to become the best, intimate, innovative lover she has ever had.

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6 thoughts on “Fuck Better: The Problem With Porn

  1. prap2017 says:

    But what about those high end Japan Gangbang porn that is greatly visually appealing that we male often became addict to,in fact the way they gangbang sometimes seems real often

  2. AJ Rum says:

    Hey prap2017,

    While I should start by emphasizing I don’t support fetishizing other cultures or degrading women, so unless you are being sarcastic, I would already take issue with your “japanese gangbang” movies.

    To answer your question, I think I should reiterate what the article says.

    If you want to fuck better, be more intimate. If you want to be more intimate, your entire libido should be directed toward your lover. This will maximize energy and keep your sex life alive and well.

    The addictive nature of porn is exactly what I claim is interrupting great, intimate fucking. So while I am not convinced the women are truly aroused in those films, even if they were, it is not in line with what I promote as the best kind of fucking, which is intimate, consensual and gives your woman multiple orgasms.

    Thanks for the honest inquiry!

    AJ

  3. prap2017 says:

    Thanks for the reply I really admire your words you don’t support degrading women as shown exclusively on porn and the next important thing I have not been sarcastic at all. I truly loved the stuff of you blog which gives genuine hands on tips on the most significant process of mankind.But the porn ecosystem interbed with the internet is harming the very ethics and values of a healthy sex behind the doors monitored by cultural protocols.

  4. phillswrites says:

    So many men need this advice!

  5. AJ Rum says:

    Glad to hear it! Help me spread the word.

    By the way, I love your blog and can’t wait to show it to my girlfriend.

  6. phillswrites says:

    Absolutely! 🙏🏾

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