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Simple Question: How can I Fuck Better?

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I know.  I know.  The question on every twenty-something man’s mind is:

How can I fuck better?

I am sure I can respond to whatever it is he meant by fuck better, but I think we should agree on some key advice.  Before giving you a list of steps, you should understand this one principal to being better in bed:

What is called “fucking” is not usually considered good sex.

And I assume you mean you want to have good sex.

Your Approach

What I mean is, you have to learn how be attentive to a woman to be good in bed, and while a woman might want to feel ravaged by your sex every once in a while, for the most part, she wants you to turn her on intimately. For most women, intimacy equals sex, equals better in bed, equals fuck better.

Better Foreplay Leads into Better Sex

I recommend you look into better foreplay, and perfect making sensual advances toward her.  This is a no fail approach to getting her so ready for sex. So even if you are terrible at penetration, at least you have made her feel close to you through intimate prep work.

The Micro-Details Process

  1. Once you are sure she wants you inside of her, focus on slow, steady shallow movements rather than the deep, animal-like thrusts we are used to seeing in movies.
  2. You can thrust, but that is only after you have set her sex on fire with desire.
  3. After you finish, keep kissing her.  Kiss her face, her neck, her chest.  And unless you are ready for round two, at this point avoid kissing her erogenous areas. This is far better than lying in bed and falling asleep, or jumping straight out of bed to wash up.

Ideally, you are packaging the sex with intimacy at the beginning, and softness at the end. Creating these kinds of bookends in sex is an essential step to being better at what you call “fucking”.

It really comes down to understanding, again, that fucking is only better if she feels it is better.

The Big Picture Process

Here is a three step schema for how to be “better in bed”:

  1. Employ 30+ minutes of foreplay that she is comfortable with.
  2. Penetrate slow and purposeful.
  3. Kiss her and cuddle after sex

 

Good luck “fucking”!

 

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